Hunting Down and Capturing Your Literary Agent: Hard Work or Just Dumb Luck?

So I was reading this inspiring article today from The Cut, and it struck a chord. Many people have asked me how a writer goes about getting an agent, and I tell them what I know. You query. And you make connections. You join submission parties on social media (not that kind... although you could say writing is a habit of masochists). Maybe you pray. One day the magic happens with a spark and then a flame. Or maybe it doesn't. You've got to find joy in the writing itself. Some successful authors aren't published until they're dead. Every author you've ever heard of has wallpapered a bathroom with rejection letters. Blah blah blah. Maybe you just have to be lucky.